Jennifer Lehr, MFT, Author at WeConcile

A Shift in Perspective

August 21, 2019December 12, 2019Jennifer Lehr, MFT

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche

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The Real Relationship: Working it Out – Learn to Love

July 18, 2019February 14, 2020Jennifer Lehr, MFT

The real relationship happened last night. I had been struggling, feeling stuck, pushing myself in ways that were leaving me frustrated, angry, and sad. My husband was mad at me for this. He pulled away and let me struggle. Finally, I said, “Why aren’t you helping me? Why have you left me alone in this?” […]

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When the Journey is Abundance

July 15, 2019January 6, 2020Jennifer Lehr, MFT

The Journey to a Healthy Relationship After years of struggle and a slow spiral into death, at the age of 46, I gave up on my first marriage. From those ashes of grief, new life emerged. I wrote a relationship education program. Would it help me in my next true love relationship? Could I create […]

What Stops You From Your Courage?

July 12, 2019December 12, 2019Jennifer Lehr, MFT

And how that causes relationship problems I was listening to a YouTube by Sadhguru the other day and he asked, “What are you doing with your one precious life?” It is a great question. Sometimes we get stuck in something, whether a job, a relationship or a mindset or attitude. We may have given up […]

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Untangling Love

July 12, 2019December 12, 2019Jennifer Lehr, MFT

In my family, love was hidden under other agendas. Learning how to truly love (both self and others) has been a life path for me.

It became my life’s mission – to help others escape what I had escaped; the pain of the past, the pain of wounded relationships and broken dreams.

I Didn’t Use To Be Good At Relationships

July 11, 2019December 12, 2019Jennifer Lehr, MFT

I remember as a kid being upset and walking away from our home. Thoughts swirled around in my head. Never get married, never have kids. Never get married, never have kids. Over and over like a mantra. I don’t remember the incident, but ours was a violent household where fighting was frequent, and empathy rare. […]

The Journey of Improving Our Relationships

July 5, 2019September 7, 2019Jennifer Lehr, MFT

Reaching Our Goals For A Relationship How does having a significant illness relate to being in a relationship that doesn’t work? How do we take that understanding and apply it to improve our relationships? How do we reach our goals for a relationship? In 2016, when I was struggling with Lyme disease, in desperation, I […]